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What Males Don't Understand: Sexual Consent

There are too many males who don't understand the concept of sexual consent.

Just because a female is showing a lot of her skin, wearing a tight-fitting dress, strips on stage, or is dressed in a scantily-clad outfit doesn't mean she wants to have sex with y'all. It doesn't mean she wants y'all to touch her either without her saying "yes". Just because she's getting paid to strip and/or likes being sexually admired, doesn't mean she wants you to touch her.

Just because a female flirts with you. Doesn't automatically mean she wants to have sex with you. It also doesn't give you permission to sexually touch her without her consent (saying "yes"). Maybe she is flirting because it makes her feel good to get your attention and approval. Maybe she is simply practicing her flirting skills for the person she has a crush on or feelings for. Or maybe you mistaken her behaviour as flirting when really she is just being friendly.

A female who is intoxicated (i.e. by alcohol or other drugs) isn't in the right state of mind to consent. Having inhibitions removed doesn't necessarily show your true self. In fact, the state of being drunk or high on drugs is a primitive state containing weakened morals...that doesn't necessarily reflect the person's true self though. If it does, the person wouldn't feel guilt nor traumatized after being drunk and having made a poor decision or been sexually assaulted. The person's true self is their sober self.

Giving sexual consent is when she says "yes" to your sexual advances while she is sober (not drunk/not high).


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