Message of Gratitude for All Male Anti-porn Fighters

Wanna say thanks to all the men who are proud enough to say they don't watch porn, it gives hope to the world. It's pretty sad when you are made to feel ashamed for [not watching porn] than you are for [watching porn]. The world is seriously backwards. This whole view on porn is backwards. We are supposed to have trust in our partner and not lie in our relationships. If you do you are horrible yet when porn is involved, all you hear is, "all guys watch it, and if they say they don't then they are lying" so where's the trust? The honesty, it doesn't matter when it comes to porn? Respecting each other means nothing when it comes to porn, and that's crazy. My husband respects me enough not to watch it, yet according to the world he is incapable of that, he's still watching it just hides it better; or is women are controlling because we have morals. When did morals become a bad thing? When did not wanting to share your partner means you're insecure ? If your spouse was lying to you about other things, everyone would tell you to leave him but when he's lying about porn you are told well you deserve it, you shouldn't be so controlling. I mean, if you tell your spouse that sleeping with other people isn't allowed, why isn't that considered controlling? You're telling them they can't do something. It makes no sense to me. I don't need multiple men to spice up my relationship. I don't need multiple men to make my relationship work. I don't need multiple men to get me off. And if my husband needs multiples of women, then he doesn't need me. If you can't be ok with looking at only me for the rest of your life, then be single and you can look at whoever you want .