How To Spot a Porn User

I will not date a man who watches porn. And I really don't care if I am single for the rest of my life. I value myself too much now to put up with substandard treatment from men. My ex swore he didn't watch it but his sexual behaviour indicated that he did. He had so many sexual habits that could only come from porn. I've had many partners who were influenced by porn that was played out in degrading and sexually abusive treatment towards me. I will never allow myself to be treated this way again and will establish firm boundaries from day one. One of the first questions I will ask is if they watch porn [Editor's comment: Better to ask "What do you think about porn?" because there are males who lie that they don't watch it]. It is a deal breaker for me if they do. How long after quitting do you think is adequate for a man to be fit to be in a relationship with a woman? I'm actually not sure if I want to be with someone who has ever watched it because I truly think that any man who watches porn has no respect for women. If you experience any of the following it is an indication that your partner watches porn: 1. Request to ejaculate on your face. 2. Request for anal sex. 3. Lack of foreplay. 4. Insistence that you remove your pubic hair. 5. Request for rimming. (Licking his arsehole) 6. Choking. 7. Hair pulling. 8. Slapping. 9. Holding your head and thrusting his penis into your mouth. 10. Requests for threesomes. 11. Calling you bitch, whore and using abusive language. 12. Asking you to dress up in sexy lingerie. 13. Asking you to strip or lap dance for him. Can you think of any more? If a partner asks you to do any of these things, he has a porn habit. ~*~ Empress Cynthia's response: With former boyfriend who chose pornified fictional female characters over me...a real woman m'kay, I can confirm: #2, #4 (even "joked" that I look like a prepubescent child after having done it), #6 (he did strangle me when he was angry), #8, #11 (called me "bitch" because I straight-up confronted him for doing wrong & called me a "whore" when I haven't even slept around) Going to add in a few (nvm, more than a few)...: -If his wallpapers & calendars contain porn or hyper-sexualized females -If he requests you to pornographically webcam yourself for him -If he ask for nude pics of you -If you don't wear thongs but he pressures you to -If he likes pornographic pictures (this includes "babes" in bikinis) -If he has porn secretly saved somewhere on his computer -If he can't stay hard for you (could be other reasons as to why but this is a common one) -If he frequently masturbates (usually males who masturbate view porn) -If he describes stripping or porn as an "art" -If he makes lame "jokes" such as "Damn, that girl is hot." -If you have small breasts and he makes "flatchested"/"ironing board" jokes -Tells you to get breast implants -Asks you to "deep-throat" -Jizzes all over your chest -Requests to ejaculate inside your mouth -Requests that you swallow his cum -Requests that you dress sexier -Sexually molests you in public -Pays for prostitutes or strip clubs -Participates in webcam girls service -He watches "porn star" interviews -If he enjoys jokes and songs that have to do with female body parts (my ex enjoyed this Youtube remix called "Tits & Ass")